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Death is nothing at all...

This past week was a difficult one.  My Aunt Rose Marie passed away after a very brief battle with cancer. I want to send my love to all my family back in the states and I want to encourage them to stay strong through this hard time.  I wish I could be there with you to support you.
“Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, you are you and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.  Call me by the old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind just because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well.”

I love you Aunt Rose Marie.  I wish I could have seen you more in the past years but you will always be in my heart.  I am lucky to have spent the time I did with you.  Rest in peace. 

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